網路發達是現代人不婚的幫手

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看過不少新聞,是在說現代人不婚的普遍現象。

我覺得,以前的人都早早結婚,現在想來,應該是他/她們下班之後沒事做,所以工作後不久就急著踏入婚姻、娶妻生子了。

反觀現代人,可能被慣老闆壓炸身心,下班之後腦袋只想放空,電腦或手機一打開就有韓劇跟日劇美劇,不喜歡追劇的可以跟家裡的貓貓狗狗無腦的發呆,或者希望提昇競爭力的會去進修,讓自己不會被社會淘汰、早點脫離慣老闆的掌控。

正因為網路實在太好用了,認識人也輕而易舉,這個不喜歡,再換下一個,網路上有一堆帥哥美女可以去認識,就會像找工作一樣,想要多多比較再去決定要應徵哪一個。然後因為正妹/帥哥在網路上隨便找都有,甚至路上隨便逛一圈都是帥哥美女韓劇跟日劇上的正妹帥哥看習慣了,不想要去看長相不耐看比路人更路人的人,所以變得如果要挑對象,會比較想要挑一個男神/女神的人,漸的就變得越來越挑了。

然後因為接觸人的機會多,當然可能會接觸到形形色色的人,例如說只想要有肉體關係的人,假如是你情我願反倒沒差,不過可能會遇到女生想要靠告人來賺錢的人,或者是男生只想玩玩騙感情,女生以為對方對自己有感情,就付出一片真心,換來落花有意流水無情的結果。接觸到不好的人,可能下次就會變得小心謹慎,十年怕草繩,後來變得不敢愛人。

再來還有普遍低薪的問題,以前的人雖然賺得少,可是可能還買得起房子,現代的人如果只賺二、三萬多,先不說買房子,連養活自己都有點累了,就更不會想要去娶妻生子了,錢多的人就有錢有閒,錢少的人可能腦中就是如何加薪,假如要踏入婚姻,可能會落入「生活沒有過得比較好,幹麻要跟人結婚?」的選擇。更何況如果是女性想結婚生子的話,在職場上想繼續發展可能就沒那麼容易了,大部份公司是不會收懷孕婦女的,這還算是人之常情,畢竟怕婦女請婚假育嬰假,又不是慈善事業,就算女性生完小孩了想要找工作,很多公司看到女生年紀大/有小孩/結婚了,也許心裡就默默的扣了50分了,台灣的婦女勞動率,女性是隨著年紀越來越低的,跟男性相比起來真的挺可悲(https://goo.gl/Q1dn7A)這時候經濟的重擔就落入男性身上了,男性也很可憐,這時候男性如果賺得也不多,可能就會想幹麻要結婚這麼累了,還是有錢再來結婚吧。做男性的還要有女性可能之後找不到工作的考量喔,這可能是職場對已婚婦女的排擠,要是女性能力沒一定程度,跟職場脫軌之後就比較難再接上了。

在家當個廢宅,上上PTT、看看影劇漫畫、玩玩電動,生活過得輕鬆又舒服,發發廢文不過五分鐘,無聊還可以上八卦筆戰,發發仇女文酸酸人,如果要追妹子、把帥哥,講話怕會中別人地雷,不回訊息又怕對方生氣,訊息一來一往又要想盡辦法去吸引人,無情之下產生了不少壓力,還是發發廢文自在又快樂,正因為有網路所以宅在家可以做的事太多,所以大家都懶得去結婚生子了。

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